Aspire Mailbag: When to Coach Your Staff Up or Coach Out

In this Aspire Mailbag episode, Jeff Gargas and I tackle two critical leadership questions submitted by our listeners:
- How do you know when it’s time to coach someone out instead of coaching them up?
- How do we coach teachers so they don’t feel fear through the process of evaluation?
We dive into the delicate balance of supporting struggling staff while recognizing when a different path may be best for both the educator and the school community. We also explore how to shift the evaluation process from a source of fear to an opportunity for growth, ensuring teachers feel supported rather than judged. Tune in for practical strategies and leadership insights to navigate these challenging situations with confidence and clarity!
Featuring Jeff Gargas and Joshua Stamper
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Aspire to Lead Won the FireBird Award!
I’m happy to announce that my book, “Aspire to Lead”, won the 2022 Leadership Book Award from Speak Up Talk Radio!
It is a great honor to get this kind of recognition and I really appreciate all your support!
The book is available for purchase on Amazon.
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